As @aschrijver said, this is a tiny community and my guess is that less than five people would currently answer yes to the question: “do you feel like you’re a member of the forgefriends community”.
The about page linked to pages that were standard discourse template. They should have been updated when the forum was setup but they were not which is a mistake. To avoid further confusion I edited them to point to existing pages with accurate information. Sorry about that.
The development category is for all software development discussions and this is where discussions happen. There are no chatroom discussions at the moment.
The forgefed category has a few messages related to how forgefriends relies on forgefed but nothing more than that.
I would ask zPlus about this but they are not registered in this forum. I’ve had success getting in touch a few months ago on the irc.libera.chat#peers room.
To complement what @aschrijver wrote regarding Feneas, I would 
on contributing to this conversation.
Thanks a lot for showing up and helping to fix the inaccurate ToS/FAQ links!