@weex on SocialHub I found this great description on how ZeroMQ project goes about community-building. It can be very relevant to FedeProxy:
This is one of the most detailed description I have ever read, thanks for sharing. It is a very interesting point of view.
In the context of inclusiveness, I think especially optimistic merge is worth attention. It creates far better environment then defensive, pessimistic merge approach, because of dynamics of power and extra context switching that is involved in delivering and keeping in mind any task which needs to go threw a few rounds of code review before being merged.